INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE

The human race appeared on this earth; how, lots of theories are there.

Man started developing in all directions & phases.

The Social & Theosophical developments ware also parts of development.

The constitution of Society was written, keeping in mind of the theosophical concepts also. i. e.

Sin

Good deeds & Bad deeds,

God & Devil,

Heaven & Hell,

Theosophical preachers talked about other world after death & associated

Good deeds to                       Heaven

Bad deeds to                         Hell

But in general, they failed to put man on good path.

Hence destiny for every man, was decided “Hell”.

Then the thinkers decided, to find a way, to make living in hell, easy & less miserable.

           

The solution they come up with is, INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE.

So the person gets habituated to live in bad environment & conditions (like hell).

It is equally good for whole mankind i. e. MAN & WOMAN.

This can always be checked

1. How many women you have seen, who think

ANOTHER WOMAN COULD LIVE WITH THIS MAN [HER HUSBAND]

2. How many men you have met, who have never thought

OF KILLING THEIR WIVES IF NOT DIVORCING.

The effects of marriage on society are clearly visible.

A.   The position of counterpart in religions, permitting divorce.

B.    Position of people in religions, not permitting divorce

Sanatanis (Hindu), as man cannot desert wife, he desert the whole society.

Roman Catholics, man & woman do not marry, and keep on living together, i. e. no obligation to society or each other.

This is concluded with a short storey

                        A man and woman were living together happily. One day they

decided to get married & did so. Next morning (as usual) the man

did not get his bed tea. When asked for the reply was “go and make

it, now you are married.

MOCKERY WITH FREE INDIA

FLAG
- We are told flag of secular India does not represent any religion or sect.
- It has chakra in the middle, called Ashok Chakra symbol of first emperor Ashok.
- It is propagated Ashok was the first emperor of India, but the fact is the first emperor was Chandra Gupta Maurya,
  grandfather of king Ashok.
- It is well known Ashok was the first Buddhist emperor.
- Ashok chakra is not associated with him, but Buddhism.
NATIONAL EMBLEM
- Ashok ki lat [Edict] also you can find in all bauddha tamples.
- The chakra is also part that edict only.
NATIONAL ANTHUM
- The song was written by Ravindra Nath Tegore in owner of George [Fifth] when he came to India in 1911.
- Since when we started calling Mother India “VIDHATA” [final destiny]

CONSTITUTION
- Is same what British had written for “slave India” with minor amendments.
- The amendments are replacing the names of top positions by an Indians.
- It is surprising; flying kite is still a crime in India.
- One person can fight election on more than one seat.

What an interpretation of freedom.
What a way to waste national wealth.

SECULAR
- Means no place for any religion in constitution; but there are separate set of laws for Hindu & Muslim.
- On top it these sets contradict “INDAIN PANEL CODE”

RESERVAION
- There are reservations for employees of so called lower cast, it is understandable looking at behavior of our ancestress.
- But reservation for places, filled by election is not digestible.
- It does not end here, now reservation is coming up for female also, for elected positions..

BUREAUCRACY
- Bureaucrats were placed by British government to control the subject & snatch money for the government.
- They are doing still the same with minor amendments

They used to pay 80% to British government & keep rest for themselves.
Now they pay 20% to ministers & 80% for self.

- Now in SWARAJYA (self rule) government is to invest the money in development of country (Not deposit in account of British).
- This change gives additional chance to politicians & bureaucrats steal money with minor amendments (Ministers 80% & bureaucrats 20%)

POLICE
- In British time their job was to control Indians as slave.
- They are still performing the same job, only British are replaced by ministers.

PILOT LIGHT
As per International Norms
- Red pilot light is for medical services like ambulance & doctors
- Blue pilot light for police
- Yellow pilot light for odd size general vehicles e.g. large trucks or trailers.
- White light is for not normal functions of vehicle like reversing

No one else gets a pilot light, even Crown or President of country or Generals in military.
Yes they are provided escorts. Pilot / Police with Blue & Medical team with red.

But in our country Politicians & Bureaucrats use these pilot lights. I do not understand HOW.

DEFINITION OF DEMOCRACY GIVEN BY ANRAHAM LICOLAN

       ORIGINAL                                                       AMENDED FOR INDIA
Democracy is by the people                                       Democracy is buy the people
Democracy is for the people                                      Democracy is far the people
Democracy is of the people                                       Democracy is off the people

MARRIAGE IN SANATAN DHARMA

While creating & running the world; for regeneration GOD created relations between male & female.

In Sri Mad Bhagwat Geeta lord Krishna says one has to perform YAGNA (execute project) means to keep the world moving i.e. regenerating (producing & breeding the offspring’s).

For associating male & female in social bindings, institution of MARRIAGE was constituted.

Looking at it in a different perspective:

To form a healthy & well secured society certain norms were devised.

MANU, the prime constitution writer of Vaidic Sanatan society, prescribed sixteen duties (sanskars). One has to perform them during life time.

One of them is MARRIAGE.
He has described eight systems of marriage.
• Bramha
• Daiv
• Aarsh
• Prajapatya
• Aasur
• Gandharva
• Rakchas
• Pishach

As per the constitution i.e. MANU SMRITI marriage is not about relations of man & woman only. It is also about relations between the two families, to strengthen the society. There are rules also for further marriage between two members of same families.

In Vaidic Sanatan society, it is irreversible ritual. Once the marriage is performed the have live together, for the sake of a healthy society as well as offspring’s.

It is to be noted in Sanatan Dharmas as well as in Sanskrit language, there is no synonym of TALAQ / DIVORCE.

One significant ritual in marriage of a sanatani is; after the main marriage rituals; brother of girl asks couple to give [Aahuti] of paddy [DHAN] to fire.

Any grain put into fire; skin & seed get separated within seconds. Only paddy; seed & skin neither part nor burn. They keep on combusting together till the fire lasts. The burnt paddy, does not covert to ashes. It combusts only, skin & seed still stay together.

Catholic Christian also pledge, [at the time marriage], not to separate till death. They also do not have divorce in their system.

INDIAN ASTROLOGY

As indicated in Indian mythology, the science of ASTROLOGY was developed by Rishi BHRIGU.

The story is; once upset upon Lord VISHNU; Rishi BHRIGU approached, and kicked him on the chest. [We see lots of pictures on Lord VISHNU with foot mark on his chest].

Lord VISHNU as usual remained calm, but this annoyed to Devi LAXMI & she cursed Rishi BHRIGU, your race [decedents] lively hood shall be begging only.

By the time the anger of Rishi BHRIGU was subsided & realizing the mistake, he apologized to both Lord VISHNU as well as Devi LAXMI.

Devi LAXMI was unable to take her curse back; to compensate she blessed him, you will not have to go out to beg; people will come to offer you elms.

To make this possible, she enlightened Rishi BHRIGU to develop the science of ASTROLOGY.

ASTRO                          + LOGY
Planets and stars or space + Discourse; Science; theory; study.

To make ASTROLOGY feasible, Rishi BHRIGU had to develop ASTRONOMY first; as he based the science of ASTROLOGY on the extra-terrestrial bodies. [Planets & moon(s) of Sun family, as well as certain groups of stars]

In my opinion God has made the extra-terrestrial bodied to decide the guide line of life of a man.

Like a computer program of today to perform the particular jobs.

In other words the “extra-terrestrial bodies” is computer of GOD.

Undoubtedly the universe is infinity, but the variable he found useful by Rishi BHRIGU in ASTROLOGY are given below:
-Planet Earth [where we live]
-Moon of planet Earth 
  Moon
-Star Sun [of which Earth is one planet]
-Other planets of star Sun
  Mars, Mercury, Jupiter, Venus, Saturn, (Neptune, Uranus & Pluto)
-Shadow Planets
  Rahu [umbra] & Ketu [Parambra]
-Surrounding space around earth [360Degree] ; which he divided in 12 parts (houses) of 300 each.
-Days - 7Nos
  Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday & Saturday
-Months - 12 Nos
  Chaitra, Vaishakh, Jyeshtha, Ashadha, Shravana, Bhadrapad, Ashwin,Kartik, Agrahayana, Paush, Marghshrish, Phalgun.
-Time Sun rise & Sun set
  Moon rise & Moon set
-Zodiac signs [Rashi] - 12 Nos
  Mesh(Aries), Vrish(Taurus), Mithun(Gemini), Kark(Cancer), Singh(Leo), Kanya(Virgo), Tula(Libra), Vrishchik(Scorpio),
  Dhanu(Sagittarius), Makar(Capricorn), kumbh(Aquarius), Meen(Pisces).
-Constellations [Nakshtra] - 27 Nos
  Ashvani, Kritika,Mrigasira, Punarvasu, Ashlesha, Poorvaphalguni, Hasta, Swati, Anuradha, Moola, Uttarashadha,
  Dhanshita, Poorvabhadrapada, Reveti, Bharani, Rohini, Ardra, Pushya, Magha, Uttarphalguni, Chitra, Vishakha,
  Jyeshtha, Poorvashadha, Sravana, Satabisha & Uttarbhadrapada.

Planets Neptune, Uranus & Pluto are not part of INDIAN ASTROLOGY & there is no reference available in the subject. These three planets are found by modern ASTRONOMY.

Then he [Rishi BHRIGU] decided characteristics of all above bodies; depending upon, their positions, time & vicinity of other extra-terrestrial bodies.

In advanced ASTROLOGY these houses are sub-divided again in several ways, but to understand only, the subject it is not important.

This means if characteristic of any particular extra-terrestrial body is evaluated, at any particular moment,

By the position of all other components, i.e. time, day, month, zodiac signs, constellations & of course the position of all other planets, including the shadow planets Rahu & Ketu, the moon as well as Zodiac signs [Rashi] & Constellations [Nakshtra].

To predict future, first at the time of birth, position of all above variables is decided; then for the time of prediction.

Prediction is made considering the placement of all above variables at the time of birth as well as for the time of prediction [Gochar].

According to our recent past astrologers, (till modern astronomy was developed & well propagated) Erath was the center of Universe & all the Stars, Planets, Moons, Zodiac signs & Constellations were moving around it.

Undoubtedly it does not make any difference in Astrology, as it considers the relative positions &motions.

But it requires a thought, a person who calculated relative motions of above extra-terrestrial bodies so precisely, did not understand the anatomy of universe.

Some also believe, the knowledge of Astrology came to India from Latin Culture with Alexander.

How true it is, we can visualize by the fact, Latin [western] Astrology does not have shadow planets [2 Nos.] & Nakshatras [27 Nos.].

Only an Indian knows about, two (large & small) SAPT-RISHI MANDAL [Group of seven stars named upon seven saints].

Some extra intelligent Indian astrologers interpret Rahu & Ketu as Uranus & Neptune.
This has no sense. My horoscope contains all four including planet Pluto.

On television, all astrologers & tele-shopping agencies talk about protection from SHANI. Shani is also a planet like any other. His time of orbiting the Sun is very long, hence its period in each Zodiac Sign is very long. His full name is Shanishchar i.e. Shaineh + char, means slow moving.

Otherwise also Shani keeps character of a father. Till the time he is positioned active, keep the person well in control [not starved]. When he moves away from active position, leave all the assets for the person only.

No one talks about Jupiter, whose behavior is quite fanatic. He keeps Characteristics of a king. i.e. till he is pleased, shall keep the person better than self. But if he is not happy, the person shall be in extreme troubles. He would think, I would be better dead, which one cannot be, by his wishes.

There is horoscope of dead person also. The best examples of this are of Lord Ram & Ravan.


Ram
-Alive had to go through what not.
-He beeing the eldest son was the apparent heir of kingdom, but it was given to his younger brother.
-That too in last minute decision after declaring the date of coronation.
-He was exiled for none of his fault at a very young age.
-His wife was kidnapped; he could not get any help from mankind & fought back the kidnapper with the help of animals.
-He got back his kingdom only because his brother was courteous enough to return it back.
-He was forced to desert his wife, for no fault of his wife or himself.
-He such a big warier, (who defeated the strongest man of Indian mythology Ravan), was forced to fight his son. To make the situation verse, he was defeated.
-His wife refused to join him back after the confusions were sorted.
-Ultimately he was forced to commit suicide by drowning in river.

After death he is worshiped & considered incarnation of God.

Ravan
-Alive was strongest man of all times, in Indian mythology
-He is supposed to be most learned man of Indian mythology.
-He jotted down all the four Vedas, backbone of Indian mythology.
-He was supposed to own an airplane. Which he piloted & maintained himself.
-There was no warier in his time, who was not defeated by him.
-He controlled the planets, specifically the largest one Shani. (It is not specified how were they controlled & he controlled
  them by Knowledge, Strength or Engineering).
-He is the only ruler in Indian history, who arranged Moksha not only for himself but for his entire subject.
-He had a son Meghnath, who could not be defeated, so he was killed when he was performing Yagna.

After death nobody likes to take his name on auspicious accusations.

QUIT SMOKING [008.0023.0]

ABOUT MYSELF

Now I am 60 plus [was born in year 1947]
I started regular smoking at age of 23 years & quit at age of 36 years.
At that time I was smoking 60 cigarettes a day.`
You have read allot about harms of smoking. But not much is emphasized
on harm to fetus if any of the parents are smoking & they are living together

HOW DIFFICULT IS TO QUIT

If one decides to quit smoking. He has to think, if he looses one of the limbs, will he keep on living or commit suicide.
INFORMATION ONE REQUIRES TO KNOW
• Smoking is a habit not intoxication. So the call to smoke is of habit not intoxication.
• Alcohol & Bhang also fall in the same category.
• Intoxications like Hashish, LSD are real.

CLASSIFICATION
- To find out, the call is of habit or intoxication, is very simple.
- If it is a habit, urge shall be persisting, till it is satisfied.
- If it is a serial intoxication, it will call at the time body requires it. After (say) about 30 minutes one shall feel intoxicated,
   irrespective of, whether he consumes item or not.
- The effects shall be lesser & crave shall be harder. This feature will persist for a few days.
HOW WE GET PLEASURE IN SMOKING
While smoking we inhale carbon mono oxide [CO] also with carbon di oxide [CO2] & carbon particles.
Carbon mono oxide clogs the blood cells.
When we inhale fresh air oxygen [O2] between the puffs of cigarettes; the clogged blood cells bust, in turn the blood converts back to normal shape.
This particular process gives the pleasure to a smoker. The visible indications are one is smoking after a long time he starts swatting, even in cold whether.

HELP
To achieve the same effect, one has to hold his breed till he can. In the process some carbon mono oxide will be formed, & create same effect.
Following presentation shall inform more about the subject

Here's how a Normal Lung looks…..

 

 

Here's how a Smoker's Lung looks…..









White area on top is the cancer this is what killed the person. The blackened area is just the deposit of tars that all smokers paint into their lungs with every puff they take.

A Normal Inflated Lung …..











A smoker's lung with emphysema...







The most well known smoking induced COPD ( Chronicobstructive pulmonary disease) is emphysema. This is another one of those diseases that primarily happen to smokers. Over 90% of the cases are smoking induced.

To get a sense of how a lung is altered by smoking to cause emphsema look at the pictures above. The first is a picture of an inflated non-smoker city dweller's lung. And second a smoker's lung with emphysema There is a very dramatic visible difference. Not only is the discoloration the issue, but the lungs have literally been ripped out of shape making breathing extremely difficult and eventually impossible.

To get a sense of what it feels like to breathe with emphysema take a deep breath and hold it. Without letting out any air, take another deep breath. Hold that one too. One more time, take one more breath. Now let it all out.

That second or third breath is what it feels like to breathe when you have emphysema. Emphysema is a disease where you cannot exhale air. Everyone thinks that it is a disease where you cannot inhale but in fact it is the opposite. When you smoke you destroy the lungs elasticity by destroying the tissue that pulls your lung back together after using muscles that allow us to inhale air. So when it comes time to take your next breath it is that much more difficult, for your lungs could not get back to their original shape.

Imagine going through life having to struggle to breathe like those last two breaths I had you take. Unfortunately, millions of people don't have to imagine it, they live it daily. It is a miserable way to live and a slow painful way to die.

Hopefully when you breathe normally today you are not in pain and you are not on oxygen. If you don't smoke you will continue to give yourself the ability to breathe longer and feel better. Never lose sight of this fact. To keep your ability to breathe better for the rest of your life, always remember to - NEVER TAKE ANOTHER PUFF !

A workable method I learnt today for QUITING SMOKING in the book

THE MAGIC OF THINKING BIG by DAVID J. SCHWARTZ

[Chapter 12 - USE GOALS TO HELP GROW]

    It is called step by step method
    Your goal is quitting smoking
    You march towards your goal
    You start with a target not to smoke for one hour
    Then for another hour
    Then for another hour
    At one point you give up
    But do not get disheartened
    Start again marching to wards goal hour by hour
    Slowly the hours increase to 4, 5 & more
    You start marching also faster towards goal i. e. 2 hour by 2 hour, then 3 hour

by 3 hour, & so on

Very soon you found the goal is reached & you have got rid of smoking habit